Mort Fertel Reviews

Mort Fertel Reviews

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Our Marriage Fitness Journey

When I first sought out marriage help, Mort Fertel’s name kept coming up. I wanted to see what all the hype was about so I searched online for Mort Fertel Reviews. Reading real reviews was important to me before taking the plunge.

Now that we’ve successfully “graduated” from the program, we wanted to write our own honest review of Mort Fertel’s program, Marriage Fitness.  We will walk you through step-by-step exactly what we did to create healthy relationship patterns using Mort Fertel’s tools.

Truthfully, we owe everything to Mort! Without him and his program, we wouldn’t be here today. We wanted to create a little blog with our own testimonials to inspire other couples with hope. If we could do it, so can you!

Like most couples, we were a bit skeptical at first. Online marriage help? Could it work? But we decided to give it a go anyway.

Does Marriage Counseling Work if Only One Person Goes?

All my life, I heard the expression, “It takes two to tango“. So I figured it was the same with marriage counseling. If Karl wasn’t on board, it wouldn’t work. I thought BOTH of us need to do this or it wouldn’t be successful. Boy was I wrong!

From the very beginning, I started implementing Mort’s advice on my own. The teleconferences were fun and easy to listen to. I never felt like I was listening to a sermon, I was never bored, and it certainly wasn’t a chore to call in. He literally gave us step-by-step instructions on what to do to save our marriage. It was pretty easy to follow his advice on my own at first.

How I Got Karl to Join Me in the Program

One day, Karl and I had planned a day trip. We were doing really well that day and I asked if it was alright if I just popped in one of Mort Fertel’s CDs for the drive. I was so happy when he agreed. And I was shocked when he actually paid attention to it. I’ve NEVER seen him listen to anything so intently. I don’t think he even watches football with that much concentration!

We listened quietly for awhile and then we were interrupted by a phone call and he answered. I thought, “That’s it, at least I tried.” But as soon as he hung up, he actually wanted to discuss something we had listened to! Karl really warmed up to the idea of talk charges. Secretly, I think he was excited for me to call him about non-logistical stuff! At that point, everything was logistics and coordinating. We both welcomed the light and easy quick check-ins. I’m happy to report that we still do talk charges! Little by little, he started listening on his own and that’s when I knew he was in!

Mort Fertel’s Program

I’m excited to share our success story, but for this to be one of those real Mort Fertel Reviews, I have to tell you a little bit about the program itself! First, I signed up for the FREE email advice. Every couple of days, I would receive an email that really made sense. The emails were easy to read and I found that whatever Mort suggested actually WORKED :)

If you haven’t already, you can sign up for the FREE email advice here:

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The emails were amazing but I decided we needed a bit more help. I joined the program as a lone ranger shortly after. Karl works late (one of the biggest issues in our marriage!) so I called in to the first teleconference alone. I was blown away. Everything just made so much sense! I kept up with the program and applied everything I learned to my marriage.

Being a lone ranger was definitely difficult at first but I’m glad I was patient! After Karl listened to that first CD in the car, he began asking if we could listen together ON HIS OWN! Believe me, I was shocked.

Happily Ever After

We are in the best place ever right now. And I owe it all to Mort Fertel and his Program. I never thought I could have a marriage like this. I couldn’t be more thankful for where we are today.

29 comments on “Mort Fertel Reviews

    • Sorry about what you’re going through, Jennifer :(
      Don’t let anything stop you from saving your family! We tried it all – counseling, e-books, you name it! Nothing worked until we found Mort Fertel. Sign up for his free emails and decide for yourself.
      My prayers are with you.

  1. he has filed for divorce, how can I change this? what can I do now? any steps to take to maybe change his mind? any suggestions on how to talk to him? He is very hostile and angry. I don’t think he wants this, but I’m not sure. HELP Please.

    • There are definitely steps you can take to stop this divorce! Your husband being angry and hostile is actually a good sign. Mort Fertel’s program taught me exactly what to say and do and I believe Marriage Fitness can help you too. Did you sign up for the free emails yet? Click here to check them out.

  2. My husband and i are going thru all of it after only 2 years marriage. i love him and i know that he loves me. We are just apart a lot because of work. He turned to a friend for comfort in the absence and we have been trying so hard to make to it thru the situation but i am having trouble trusting again. i want to find something to help us and our family.

  3. My husband T, says that I have personally destroyed every last feeling he ever had toward me.he says he completely has stopped caring at all. He hasn’t touched me in several years. I have an addiction issue and we have both had affairs. After being together for almost 22 years he is still the love of my life. He will forever be the only true love of my life. I used to dream about the days to come In the future where he might actually allowe me to feel needed by him. I secretly have hoped that one day when he really truly needs me I can finally be at his beckon call, doing as much as he will let me and just maybe he would finally appreciate and feel greatful for me. Finally maybe I would get my chance to prove to him that I would just about do anything in this world for him. I’ve tried many rehabs and my brain and very own thinking continues to play tricks on my mind and my addiction is unfortunately stronger than my very own need of human survival. I would happily give up both my legs just to have this horrible wiring in my brain thats acting against common sense and even my true approval. What I would do to hear him say he loved me again. What I would do to feel loved, hell even liked by him again. We still live under the same roof but often he mentions in a few years the kids will be gone and he is so gone with no forwarding address to me. I feel like a piece of shit. The pain of the disgust he has towards me is unbarable. I love him forever and I can’t imagine the horrible thought of living without him. If I could just take back time and not be near the car that ran me over when my addiction to opiates first began I would give almost anything. Please I’m desperate, help us if there is any hope.-( L

  4. Trouble started last year for us, it started in April, then the end of April we lost our home and everything in it in a fire. He left, moved in with a friend. He drafted paperwork for a divorce and things got really ugly. Him and his friend got into arguments and he came home after six. He says on his own but I have a feeling his friend kicked him out. He didn’t help me rebuild our home, but came home in time to move into our brand new house. I am now six months pregnant with our second child. Things were slowly getting better but recently have turned again. We don’t argue but there is no conversation, no time alone together, no intimacy. I cant help but feel he wants to leave but is only staying because we are expecting. He is not open to an counceling. I NEED to fix this! Can I do this alone and will it work?

    • You can definitely do it alone, Chris! I did! Mort said in one of his emails – it does NOT take two to tango. You can sign up for more of his advice here.

  5. My wife and i have been married almost 4 years. Eventually things went bad when I Took the night shifts. I started to get sleep deprived and arguing got really nasty. I was responsible for most of the arguments. Finally My wife separated from me on August 26th 2012. I was asked to leave the house and since them we’ve been trying to reconcile unsuccessfully. When my wife’s family got involved the marriage was doomed. They have such a heavy influence on her that she won’t listen to me anymore. She now lives in her own house close by her family. My wife told me that the marriage is over it can’t be fixed. She sold the wedding rings, wedding dress and got rid of the wedding pictures. I feel like all hope is lost. We have two children three and one year olds. I desperately want to save my marriage but I fear its too late. My wife is very cold and indifferent towards me. We hardly talk sometimes for months. Can this program help me ? I have my doubts

    • Your marriage isn’t over just because the rings were sold! I would do everything in my power to put my family back together. There’s definitely still hope and Mort’s program will help you – as long as you put in the work! But you can decide that for yourself – check it out here: Mort Fertel’s Program.

  6. I’m so heartbroken and lost. My husband and I have been married for 12 yrs and have 5 children… he’s had issues with addiction to women, and I’ve let him down and disappointed him on so many levels. he’s on the verge of giving everything up for a lady he’s known for two weeks. I am devastated.

    • I’m so sorry for what you are going through, Viv. Don’t let him break up your family for someone he’s known for 2 weeks. I would sign up for Mort’s Lone Ranger program ASAP. Mort will give you step by step instructions on how to end the affair and bring your husband home. For more info, click here: Mort Fertel Lone Ranger Program. Good luck!

  7. HELP…….
    My husband was caught cheating a year after the first time. Finances continue to be an issue. He continues to still talk to this girl. Even after all these lies, I still love him. What is wrong with me? I kinda want him to move out but the other side of me wants him to stay. I really don’t want to be divorced with 2 children and also disrupt his daughter teenage yrs. When asked if he’s ready to give up on his marriage he responds….its complicated. You can’t haave your cake and eat it to. Do I stick around for more lies or can this behavior ever change? Everyone says leave but that’s easier said than done.

    • I’m so sorry :( You’re the only one who can answer that question though. If you do want to stay, there is definitely hope. There are ways to end your husband’s affair and get back on track. One of Mort’s emails said that you should give it a year of really trying – this means doing everything the Marriage Fitness program recommends – before you give up. At this point, what do you have to lose? My heart goes out to you. I hope this works for you.

      Click here for Mort Fertel’s free emails. Then you can check out the email where Mort talks about “When to give up”.

      • Agreed! Your friends/family may have your best interests at heart but what makes them experts on what’s best for YOU?!

  8. My husband and I are married for 10 years and we have two lovely boys. Now he made a decision to leave. I want to try everything to save my marriage but he is not willing to He just wants to leave.

    • You can still change your husband’s mind! If you’re willing to try anything to save your marriage, like you said, then definitely join Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp. He literally gives step-by-step instructions for saving your marriage and restoring your family. Don’t give up hope! Here’s his site: Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp Site

  9. Mort,
    I love my husband dearly but I don’t fill he cares about my filling or my wants and needs. Example, my husband went on a trip for work with his boss who is female. I am telling you this so u can understand some of where I’m coming from. When My husband got to HIS DESTINATION, he called, as I was planning on meeting him that evening but when I checked out our finances there was no way for me to go so I called him later that night and told him the situation he was furious. The rest of the week he would not return any of my texts or phone calls. I was so hurt that he could be gone that whole time and not once contact me. another situation , I found in my husbands coat pocket a advertizment about Viagra and it said he got a three day complemtentary trial . I asked him about it and he said he got it from the doctor. I asked where the three pills were and he said they were put away not to worry about it. I let it go for then except to ask why didn’t he talk with me about this as he knows I am afraid for him to take Viagra when he really dosnt NEED it. I KNOW IT CAN CAUSE STROKES. HE SAID IT WAS A SURPRIZE FOR ME. He really dosnt need any help. A fter a week I asked him where the pills were ? he refused to show me. I don’t understand how a man would make his wife think maybe something elses is going on? rather than show me the pills? He told me hes not gonna show me the pills because I asked him he said HE WASNT RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT I THOUGHT. I TOLD HIM THAT DOING THINGS LIKE THIS PUT QUESTIONS IN MY MIND AND WHY WOULD HE RATHER LET ME THINK LIKE THAT Instead of showing me the pills? I AM SO HURT THAT HE DOSNT CARE ENOUGH ABOUT WHAT I FILL AND THE OUT COME OF OUR MARRIAGE IS N JEOPARDY BUT HE JUST DOSNT CARE BECAUSE I’M STILL HERE HE BELIEVES I ALWAYS WILL BE, HOW DO I GET IT THREW HIS HEAD THAT THIS IS HURTING US? I JUST DONYT KNOW WHAT TO DO OR SAY ANY MORE. HE WOULD RATHER ME THINK HES UP TO SOMETHING THAN TO TELL ME THE TRUTH ABOUT THINGS OR JUST SHOW ME. IS THIS MARRIAGE A LOST CAUSE BECAUSE DONT SEE A FUTURE UNLESS I JUST KEEP MY THOUGHTS AND QUESTIONS TO MYSELFAND IN DOING SO I DONT FILL LIKE HE CARES WHAT I FILL OR THINK. CAN U HELP OUR MARRIAGE?

  10. Hello my husband is having an affair. I have gotten the emails and have ordered the program, but my husband has filed for divorce today and say he knows his relationship with the women is not going to work but it doesn’t change anything between us. he has a lot of resentment towards me and I know that is what is covering up his love for me. He is not the type of person to forgive past hurt. when I say past these things happened 11 years ago and never aging. how will this program help that?

  11. We have been married for 8 years and we have two wonderful kids together. I have destroyed my marriage. My priorities have never been right. I was more focused on my work and studies than in my family. Ever since we had our first kid I felt that my wife only had love for my kid and that I was just a provider. I felt that things got worse after the second one. But in reality it has been the fact that I have not been there when she has needed me that was making her to focus all her love and attention to my kids. My frustration with my relationship with my wife made me become a very mentally and verbally abusive person. That behavior have affected my kids too, specially my son.
    It was not until one day that her mother talked to me that made me realize that I have screwed up everything beyond repair. I do love my wife, i really do. Even when I have done those horrible things. But it is too late. I do want to fix and save my marriage but she has completely checked out of the relationship, we rarely talk, she wants to end the marriage. I do not want to separate or get a divorce. I love my wife and my kids. I have been trying to change my behavior and have been setting my priorities straight. But this change on my part have made her even more mad. Mostly because now , after so many years of neglecting my responsibilities I am showing her that I can be the husband and father that she wanted me to be all this time. I think that instead of fixing things, I have been making things worse lately. She is really mad at me, she is very angry, she looks at me with disgust. I do not know what to do.

  12. My husband was caught having an affair when i found his old cell phone and looked at his old text messages. He had been denying the affair for over a month when I would ask him about it, but came clean when I found the texts. He came home and talked to me about it and stopped the physical part of the affair the next day. The woman he had the affair with knew me personally so she knew he was married when all this started, in fact she kept dating her boyfriend the entire time she and David where together. I believe that David is still very emotionally attached to Erica (he says he still loves her) Even though he is with me and we are in therapy to try to save our marriage he doesnt really know what he wants. Will this program work for us?

  13. Can this work if your spouse has moved out and signed an apt lease?
    Even though he says he wants his marriage and loves me and wants to date me. How do I not feel the anger of him leaving me to do this? I’ve been looking for help and am currently reading Marriage Fitness
    Thank you

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